Reflection 003

Sometimes, I think about the difference between intentional and intense. For starters, I have a love/hate relationship with intentional because of its overuse in "millennial speak," but I get why it initially caught wave — that is, if a word can catch a wave. #totallydude

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Thoughts on: Dating and Community

With that said, I’ve listed a few questions that may commonly get asked amongst groups of friends, and I’ve responded (in some cases fairly generally) with some thoughts that I feel likely could have come up prior to that exchange I witnessed by the subway.

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How to: Process Dating

In The Sound of Music, there's a song called "Maria;" and as I'm sure (or hope!) most of you know, it's the one when the nuns ask, "How do you solve a problem like Maria? How do you catch a cloud and pin it down?"

As a general note about me, songs pop into my head without any real explanation, and then I just go for days singing it. Lately, it's been this song. Again, I don't really know why; but nevertheless, I'm using it as the hook for this post.

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An Update on My Dating Hiatus

Last year, while processing a breakup, I decided it’d be wise for me to take some time away from the dating scene. Then, I read this book that challenged me to commit to the break as a year-long endeavor. Currently, I’m in the middle of the tenth month. 

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